All definitions
limit
that which is defined.

The sky is vast and boundless. It has no beginning or ending. It cannot be defined, and hence cannot be fenced.

Don't fence yourself by definitions about yourself. The labels that you give yourself and those that have been given to you by the society keep you bound. All labels are abstractions, mere concepts of the illusory mind; they are not the reality. When two people interact with each other based on their respective labels, they are not interacting with the real concrete individual behind the label.

Once you label a person, you negate the wholeness of the individual. Labels fragment the individual. More the labels, higher the degree of fragmentation, and the whole individual becomes a 'persona' with multiple personalities. This puts a huge burden on the person as he or she has to now live up to the labels depending upon the situation resulting in dysfunctionality. When everyone in a society identify themselves by the multitude of labels, the society becomes dysfunctional.

Your real work is to realize your 'true essence' and throw out all the labels you are carrying about yourself, to regain the wholeness within you.